Answers to the questions parents ask most about Silence to Signals™, the parent course built on the Silence to Signals™ Communication Fram

Every term below comes from the official vocabulary of the Silence to Signals™ Communication Framework and its six-stage SIGNAL Path, developed

If your child is hitting his head or hurting himself, you are not overreacting. This behavior is serious, and it is also often a signal your child needs help communicating.When a child engages in self-injurious behavior — hitting, head-banging, biting — the instinct is to make it stop. But what if the more powerful question isn't *how do I stop this* — it's *what is my child trying to tell me*? Self-injurious behavior is rarely random; in most cases, it is the loudest signal in a sequence that began much earlier, with smaller, quieter signals that went unread. Understanding the functions behind self-injury — from sensory overload and protest to pain, need for predictability, and communication mismatch — changes everything about how a parent can respond. This post walks through what those earlier signals often look like, why they escalate when they go unrecognized, and what to do both in the moment and after it has passed. You'll also find a clear, step-by-step framework for reading the pattern beneath the behavior — one grounded in over 25 years of clinical experience and research showing reductions in self-injurious behavior of up to 81%. The goal isn't control. It's clarity — and it starts with learning to read what your child is already communicating.

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The term you use to describe your child shapes how you see their communication. Here's why 'nonspeaking' changes everything.

Your child pulled your hand to the fridge. They held eye contact for three seconds. They pressed a new button on their talker. These are the wins that matter most—and they deserve to be celebrated like the miracles they are.